SaidSaid is a dating and matchmaking platform built around better information before you connect. You can discover people through profiles, reviews, endorsements, AI-powered match suggestions, and Sparks. You can also help someone you care about find a match through Matchmaking.
SaidSaid is built around the idea that dating should involve more than a photo and a swipe. People can share their experiences, people who know you can vouch for you, and the people who care about you can help you find someone great.
Most dating apps focus primarily on profiles, photos, and swiping. SaidSaid adds information and connections that can help you make a better decision before you meet someone.
SaidSaid combines dating profiles with reviews, endorsements from people who know someone, AI-powered matching, Sparks, and Matchmaking. The goal is to give you more context about a person and more ways to make meaningful connections.
Both.
You can use SaidSaid to date for yourself, or you can use Matchmaking to help a friend, family member, or someone else you care about find a match.
Yes. SaidSaid is an adults-only platform.
You must be at least 18 years old, or the age of majority in your jurisdiction if that age is higher, to use SaidSaid.
No. SaidSaid is an adults-only platform. You must be at least 18 years old, or the age of majority in your jurisdiction if that age is higher, to use SaidSaid.
We do not permit minors to create or use SaidSaid accounts or participate in the platform.
No. SaidSaid is currently available only to people in the United States.
Yes. SaidSaid is free to use and does not require a subscription.
Core features include profiles, reviews, endorsements, Sparks, messaging after a mutual Spark, AI-powered match suggestions, the Bulletin Board, and Matchmaking.
Identity verification is available for a one-time $2.99 fee and is required before you can write a date review.
Yes. SaidSaid lets you indicate that you are looking for Something Serious and uses your preferences and profile information to help identify compatible people.
SaidSaid does not guarantee that any match will lead to a relationship. The goal is to give you better information and better opportunities to connect.
Yes. SaidSaid lets you indicate that you are interested in Casual Dating.
Your dating preferences are used as part of the matching process to help identify people whose preferences may be compatible with yours.
Yes. SaidSaid supports Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) as a dating preference.
You can select ENM as what you're looking for and use your other dating preferences to help find compatible people.
When you are dating for yourself, SaidSaid lets you choose what you're looking for, including:
You can change your preferences in Settings.
Dating for Me is the setting that tells SaidSaid you are actively looking for dates.
When Dating for Me is turned on, your profile can appear in Discover and in other users' AI-powered match suggestions.
When it is turned off, you can continue using other SaidSaid features without participating in dating matching.
Yes.
You can turn off Dating for Me in Settings. This removes you from other users' dating discovery and Bulletin Board suggestions while allowing you to continue using other SaidSaid features.
Yes.
You can turn off Dating for Me in Settings. This removes you from other users' Bulletin Board suggestions.
You can continue using other SaidSaid features, including endorsements, reviews, and Sparks.
Reviews let people share their experiences from dating or interpersonal interactions.
Reviews are intended to give people additional information about someone before they decide whether to connect or meet. Reviews are subject to SaidSaid's Community Guidelines and moderation process.
Date reviews must be based on a genuine, firsthand dating or interpersonal experience.
SaidSaid does not allow people to create reviews about someone they have never dated or interacted with. Reviews must follow the Community Guidelines and are screened by AI before publication.
SaidSaid requires identity verification before someone can write a date review because reviews are intended to come from real, accountable people.
Identity verification costs $2.99 one time and is handled through the verification and payment providers. Endorsements and other core features remain free.
Reviews and endorsements are not anonymous.
The person who writes a review or endorsement is identified by their SaidSaid display name. SaidSaid does not require your legal name to be publicly displayed, and users can use a pseudonymous display name.
The goal is accountability without requiring everyone to publicly display their legal name.
When someone writes a review or endorsement about you, you are notified and given 72 hours to respond before it is published.
If you respond during that window, the review or endorsement and your response are published together. If you do not respond within 72 hours, the review or endorsement can be published without your response.
You can still report or dispute published content if you believe it violates SaidSaid's rules.
Endorsements let friends, family, coworkers, and other people who know you personally vouch for your character and personality.
Unlike a dating review, which is about someone's experience dating you, an endorsement gives people who know you a chance to describe your qualities and what makes you who you are.
Endorsements can include strengths, optional areas for improvement, the type of relationship the endorser has with you, qualities they think would make you a good match, and an optional photo.
People who know you can endorse you, including friends, family members, coworkers, and other people who have a genuine relationship with you.
An endorser can optionally include a photo with an endorsement.
These photos can help show the person in the context of the relationships and experiences that matter to them. Like other user content, endorsement photos are subject to SaidSaid's moderation rules.
You cannot simply delete a review written by someone else.
You can respond to it during the 72-hour Right to Respond period. If the review violates SaidSaid's rules, contains prohibited personal information, or contains false statements of fact, you can flag or dispute it for review.
No.
Reviews and endorsements represent the experiences and opinions of the people who submit them. SaidSaid does not guarantee that user-generated content is accurate or truthful.
Content is moderated for violations of SaidSaid's rules, and users can report or dispute content they believe violates those rules.
A Spark lets you spark a connection with someone.
You can Spark someone for romantic interest, friendship, or an endorsement-related connection. If both people Spark each other, they become a mutual Spark and messaging becomes available.
Messaging becomes available when two people mutually Spark each other.
Once the Spark is mutual, a conversation can be opened and the two people can message each other.
The Bulletin Board is your personalized place to see AI-powered match suggestions.
SaidSaid's matching system evaluates information such as your dating preferences, age range, location, relationship preferences, personality traits, and lifestyle preferences to generate daily suggestions.
The matching system runs regularly to refresh your suggestions. Match categories help you understand how strongly the system believes two profiles may fit, but a match is not a guarantee of compatibility or romantic success.
SaidSaid uses the information you provide about yourself and what you are looking for to calculate compatibility with other eligible profiles.
Current dating preferences include things such as age range, location, relationship preferences, personality traits, and lifestyle preferences.
The system looks for compatibility between both people's preferences rather than simply showing you profiles based on a single characteristic.
AI suggestions are intended to help you discover people. They are not endorsements or guarantees.
No.
AI matching is designed to identify people who may be compatible based on the information available to SaidSaid. A match is a suggestion, not a guarantee that two people will be compatible or interested in each other.
Matchmaking lets you help someone you care about find a match.
You can create a matchmaking profile for a friend, family member, sibling, coworker, or another person you are helping. You provide information about the person and what they are looking for, and SaidSaid generates match suggestions for you.
When you find someone promising, you can forward the profile to the person you're matchmaking for.
Matchmaking is free.
Yes.
SaidSaid lets people use Matchmaking to help someone they care about find potential matches. A friend, family member, sibling, coworker, or another person can help search for compatible profiles and forward promising profiles to you.
Yes, if they want to view the profiles you share with them.
You can create a Matchmaking profile for someone who does not yet have a SaidSaid account and find potential matches on their behalf. When you find a promising match, you can share the profile with them. They will need to create a SaidSaid account to view the shared profile.
Matchmaking is designed to minimize the information collected about the person you're helping.
The matchmaker provides information such as the person's relationship to them, gender, target city and dating preferences. The matchmaking profile is used to generate matches and is not publicly displayed.
The matchmaker is responsible for having the knowledge and consent of the person they are matchmaking for.
SaidSaid is designed around accountability.
Every user verifies their phone number, and people who write date reviews must complete identity verification. SaidSaid also offers optional selfie and ID verification.
Verification does not guarantee someone's character, safety, or the accuracy of their reviews or endorsements.
SaidSaid offers:
Phone verification: Free and used for account security.
Selfie verification: Free and optional. A live selfie is compared with your profile photo and, when successfully matched, you receive a Photo Verified badge.
ID verification: A one-time $2.99 verification used to establish eligibility to write date reviews.
No.
SaidSaid does not conduct criminal background checks on users. Optional identity verification helps establish accountability, but verification does not guarantee someone's character, safety, or the accuracy of their reviews or endorsements.
SaidSaid uses phone verification, identity verification for reviewers, AI moderation, reporting tools, blocking, and human review of moderation appeals to help create a safer dating environment.
No dating platform can guarantee someone's behavior or personal safety. Users should use good judgment and follow basic dating safety practices.
SaidSaid uses AI-powered moderation before content is published.
Reviews, responses, endorsements, and endorsement photos are screened for violations such as harassment, threats, hate speech, personally identifiable information, sexually explicit content, defamation, and fake or manipulated content.
Published content can also be flagged for review. AI handles the initial review, and users can appeal moderation decisions to a human moderator.
You can flag reviews, responses, endorsements, endorsement photos, and other content that you believe violates SaidSaid's rules.
You can also block users and contact SaidSaid support at support [at] saidsaid.com.
Reported content is reviewed through SaidSaid's moderation process.
AI moderation is used to screen content, and users can appeal moderation decisions to a human moderator within the applicable appeal period.
If you believe published content violates SaidSaid's rules, you can flag it for review.
If you are the subject of a review and believe it contains false statements of fact or other prohibited content, you can also submit a content dispute.
Moderation decisions can be appealed to a human moderator within the applicable appeal period.
If you are in immediate danger, call 911.
On SaidSaid, you can block users and report content that violates the Community Guidelines. For an urgent safety concern involving content on SaidSaid, contact support and identify the issue as an urgent safety concern.
SaidSaid does not conduct criminal background checks, so users should use appropriate judgment and follow basic dating safety practices.
SaidSaid takes privacy and security seriously.
Personal information is protected using encryption and is handled according to the SaidSaid Privacy Policy. SaidSaid does not sell personal information for monetary consideration.
You can also use a pseudonymous display name rather than publicly displaying your legal name.
SaidSaid uses your phone number for account verification and service-related notifications such as reviews, endorsements, Sparks, and response-window notifications.
You can opt out of non-essential notifications through your notification settings or by replying STOP to SaidSaid SMS messages. Login verification codes are required for account security.
Go to Settings, scroll to the bottom, and select Delete Account.
Account deletion is permanent. Your account and associated personal information will be deleted according to SaidSaid's data-retention policies. Certain content and records may be retained where required for legal, safety, security, or other legitimate purposes.
SaidSaid does not intentionally collect consumer health data as a category of information.
User-generated content may incidentally mention health-related topics, but SaidSaid does not intentionally extract or catalog that information as consumer health data.
The SaidSaid Community Guidelines explain what is and is not allowed on the platform, how content moderation works, how to report content, and how appeals work.
Community Guidelines: saidsaid.com/help/guidelines
SaidSaid's Privacy Policy explains how personal information is collected, used, protected, and shared.
Privacy Policy: saidsaid.com/help/privacy
The Terms of Service contain the legal terms governing use of SaidSaid.
Terms of Service: saidsaid.com/help/terms
SaidSaid is operated by Said Said Limited Liability Co., a Wyoming S-Corporation with principal operations in Wisconsin.
For questions or support, contact support [at] saidsaid.com.